IDFKNO.
Maybe you are being taken advantage of, maybe the activity you are engaged in is tedious, maybe someone close to you is dishonest, irritating, or unconscious, but all this is irrelevant. Whether your thoughts and emotions about this situation are justified or not makes no difference. The fact is that you are resisting what is. You are making the present moment into an enemy. You are creating unhappiness, conflict between the inner and the outer. Your unhappiness is polluting not only your own inner being and those around you but also the collective human psyche of which you are an inseparable part. The pollution of the planet is only an outward reflection of an inner psychic pollution: millions of unconscious individuals not taking responsibility for their inner space.

Either stop doing what you are doing, speak to the person concerned and express fully what you feel, or drop the negativity that your mind has created around the situation and that serves no purpose whatsoever except to strengthen a false sense of self. Recognizing its futility is important. Negativity is never the optimum way of dealing with any situation. In fact, in most cases it keeps you stuck in it, blocking real change. Anything that is done with negative energy will become contaminated by it and in time give rise to more pain, more unhappiness. Furthermore, any negative inner state is contagious: Unhappiness spreads more easily than a physical disease. Through the law of resonance, it triggers and feeds latent negativity in others, unless they are immune — that is, highly conscious. I am so sorry……../
Eckhart Tolle (via lazyyogi)
And loving someone doesn’t mean you have to love everything they do. But it does mean you forgive them a little more often, a little more easily.
Melanie Harlow, Some Sort of Happy
(via hellyeahitsrandom)

gaysfinest:

You’re not in love with her.

If yelling at her during an argument doesn’t make your throat burn like you just downed 6 shots, you’re not in love with her. If her eyes can’t make you stop in your tracks and think about what you’re going to say next, you’re not in love with her. If her laugh doesn’t make you tense up at your knuckles thinking about never hearing it again, you’re not in love with her. If her voice can’t calm your worst anxiety attacks and makes you not want to listen to anything she has to say, you’re not in love with her. If her smile doesn’t make your chest quake and your lungs shrink but feel refreshed all in one motion, you’re not in love with her. If her taking off her clothes is when you pay most attention to her, you’re not in love with her.

absolute-butt-fuck-a-go-go:

I feel unhappy
I feel so sad
I lost the best friend
That I ever had

She was my woman
I loved her so,
But it’s too late now
I’ve let her go

I’m going through changes
I’m going through changes

We shared the eve’s
We shared each day
In love together
We found a way

But soon the world
Had its evil way
My heart was blinded
Love went astray

I’m going through changes
I’m going through changes

It took so long,
To realize
That I can still hear
Her last goodbyes

Now all my days
Are filled with tears
Wish I could go back
And change these years

I’m going through changes
I’m going through changes

cokedrip:

iv done some fucked up stuff cause my heart hurt

:(

:(

Is it just me or is this site meaningless